Living on Long Island: A Guide for Newcomers

What It's Like Here

Stretching east from Queens for over 100 miles, Long Island includes the suburban counties of Nassau (closer to NYC) and Suffolk (further out, more spacious). The area is known for its excellent public schools, single-family homes, proximity to beaches, and distinct towns. Nassau is more densely populated and closely tied to NYC’s orbit, while Suffolk offers a more rural or beachside vibe.


General Vibe
Suburban, family-oriented, and car-dependent. Nassau County is bustling and well-developed, while Suffolk offers open space, charming villages, and long stretches of coastline. Long Island is ideal for those who want a quieter, more spacious lifestyle within reach of NYC—without the feel of a city.


Key Cities & Neighborhoods

  • Nassau County: Garden City, Great Neck, Hempstead, Rockville Centre
  • Suffolk County: Huntington, Patchogue, Port Jefferson, Smithtown, Riverhead
  • East End: Hamptons (South Fork) and North Fork—known for luxury, vineyards, and second homes

Who Lives Here

  • Families looking for good schools and backyards
  • Commuters to Manhattan or Queens
  • Retirees and multigenerational households
  • Affluent summer homeowners (especially in the Hamptons)
  • Blue-collar and service workers in inland towns

Things To Do

  • Beaches: Jones Beach, Robert Moses, Fire Island, Hamptons
  • Outdoors: Long Island Sound, nature preserves, fishing, hiking trails
  • Culture: Nassau County Museum of Art, vineyards on the North Fork
  • Family Fun: Long Island Aquarium, Adventureland, local fairs and town events
  • Shopping & Dining: Roosevelt Field Mall, historic downtowns (Port Jefferson, Northport)

Housing Snapshot

Housing Types: Predominantly single-family homes, some garden apartments and co-ops

  • Typical Rents:
  • 1BR: $2,000–$2,800/month
  • 2BR: $2,600–$3,500/month

Purchase Prices:

  • Nassau: $600K–$1.2M typical range
  • Suffolk: $450K–$900K; higher in coastal zones or East End
  • Hamptons: $2M–$10M+ for luxury estates

Commute & Transit
Long Island Rail Road (LIRR) is the main artery to NYC, with new access to Grand Central via East Side Access. Commute times range 40–90 minutes, depending on distance. Most residents drive and rely on the Long Island Expressway (LIE) and Northern/Southern State Parkways. Not walkable; car ownership is the norm


Why It Works

  • Space, schools, and safety
  • Coastal access and nature
  • Balance of suburban life with train access to city
  • Established communities and strong public services

What to Watch Out For

  • High property taxes
  • Car is essential
  • Long, expensive commutes
  • Limited nightlife or culture in some areas

Is Long Island Right for You?
If you're raising a family, value top schools, and want a coastal lifestyle with just enough access to the city, Long Island checks a lot of boxes—especially in Nassau or walkable Suffolk towns.

If you want to expand your search to the greater metro, check out the LookyLOO Review of the New York City Metro Area.